Inside: Are you stressed out trying to homeschool preschool? You really don’t need to stress about preschool. There are about a million everyday life things that “count” as school! Here are 21 ideas to help you realize that life is school.
Like many others who start homeschooling who have no prior experience, I once thought of school as just workbooks and textbooks and sitting at a desk (kitchen table) for hours. I way overcomplicated homeschooling preschool.
This style of homeschooling just didn’t work for us. I hated it, and my daughter hated it (the only one in formal “school”). I especially hated the constant interruptions from the younger ones all day long.
In order to make homeschooling work with this many little kids in this season of life, I had to redefine what “learning” looked like. Now, instead of feeling guilty for not doing all those workbooks, I’ve realized that all the things we do now are super legitimate learning. These things actually allow my kids to surpass their grade level learning and be in school every day.
Kids are wired to learn, to love learning in fact, if we only get out of their way and let them.
Homeschooling Preschool: 21 Ideas
1) Answering their questions.
Sound simple? It is. But how many times have you brushed off a question…in a few minutes, after I do X,Y,&Z. By the time you get to it, they’ve already moved onto something else.
Seize their curiosity! Stop what you’re doing immediately and find the answer. It’s at your fingertips: pull out your phone and google it. Grab a book off the shelf. You will accomplish so much just by answering their questions. Kids are born with overflowing curiosity. It’s only lack of answers and not knowing how to find the answers that snuffs it out.
2) Math facts in reverse.
My three year old came up with this idea. One day, while driving in the car, he started quizzing me! “Three plus three is?” “Six!” I responded. “Yep!” was his confident reply (as though he knew the answer all along). As I played along, he continued to give me more complicated problems. I am 100% certain he is filing away my responses in that smart little brain of his.
3) Display maps in your home.
Ours is positioned right above our kitchen table. The kids spend a ton of time there, eating and drawing and crafting. They point out countries they know. I correct as needed. They ask about countries that are their favorite colors. They ask why there are two Pacific Oceans (the world is round). Guess what? That’s geography!
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Speaking of geography, puzzles are a way to learn using multiple senses. We have this wonderful, wooden Melissa & Doug United States puzzle (my three year old can do it now!). My parents also gifted us an Africa puzzle. The kids do these puzzles over and over. They know many of the countries and states by heart and have a basic grasp of geography I never learned in school.
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5) Car games.
On a recent trip, we played the license plate game. If you’ve never played, you simply try to see all fifty states’ license plates marked off your list. What did we learn? How to alphabetize state names, state abbreviations,subtraction to find out how many we still needed to find. Even seemingly innocent games like Guess the Animal teach things like animal names, animal features, animal families, logic, geography, reasoning, and how to ask good questions.
6) Divvying up nuggets.
When we get fast food nuggets, we order an entree and divvy them up. I bought a 20 piece nugget and divided the nuggets between my three older children. My daughter asked, “Mom, how did you know we would each get 6?” A long-division lesson commenced, complete with remainders (there were two, which I promptly ate).
7) Read-aloud, read-aloud, read-aloud.
For any subject you want to teach, there is a good picture book to go with it. Besides teaching academic subjects, kids learn so much from books: character, conflict resolution, empathy and emotional awareness. Guess what? Public schools dedicate classroom time to these subjects with a curriculum. Quality literature can teach it much better.
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8) Discussing our budget.
While driving home from the grocery store one day, my son asked if we could go to Chick-fil-a the next day. I told him we were going to skip it this week because we spent $35 eating out two days before. We only have
$100 in our eating out budget, and as it was early in the month, we needed to save some for the latter half of the month. My daughter did some mental math to figure out how much we had left in our budget that month. Math is everywhere!
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9) Rich, spontaneous conversation
At the beach, we were digging in the sand, joking about digging to China. I mentioned to the kids, “Did you know that people used to think the world was flat?” “Really?” they responded curiously.
We told them to look at the horizon and compared it to a beach ball. “When you look at the ball straight on, can you see the other side past a certain point?” “No.” “That’s why people believed the world was flat, and the first man to say otherwise was almost killed for saying it was round! People thought he was crazy!” “Woah,” their jaws dropped.
History lesson at the beach.
10) Cooking & baking
So many lessons here: reading letters and numbers, the importance of following directions, why certain ingredients change the dish the way they do (science), fractions. The list could go on and on.
11) How do you spell…?
When my kids were younger, this question used to drive me crazy! I couldn’t wait to introduce some kind of formal spelling curriculum so that they had a systematic way to learn spelling. But the more my daughter read and the more she wrote, the more her spelling improved. She guesses correctly more often than not now.
Her younger brother (creator of “Reverse Math Facts” above) now asks “How do you spell?” And it all begins again. We never did get to that formal curriculum, and my daughter can spell on or possibly above grade level.
12) Build with LEGOs
LEGOs develops fine motor skills, teaches creativity and problem-solving. Playing with LEGOs prepares kids for engineering careers by teaching them to think three-dimensionally.
13) Hiking & nature walks
When you take your kids on hikes and nature walks, all it takes for learning to happen is you modeling curiosity. It comes naturally to some, and takes intentionality for others. Notice bird calls. Show them nests. Point out interesting bugs and plants. Whatever peaks your interest, talk about that.
Parental enthusiasm is contagious and is KEY to success in homeschooling.
14) Observing you doing something you love
Julie Bogart of Brave Writer (a writing curriculum) called it “awesome adulting”. It is vital that you have something you love that your kids see you doing. Your passion will inspire them.
When I started blogging, my daughter immediately asked to start writing stories of her own. Another friend I know started selling makeup on the side, and her daughter immediately caught her enthusiasm.
15) Cleaning & laundry
It’s called lifeskills. And how many friends did you have in college who didn’t know how to do these things? Many high schools offer a lifeskills class and require it. This is absolutely “school”.
16) Pay the bills
More life skills. Math, how to write a check, budgeting. These skills are essential to success in life, yet so few people really know how to manage money.
Give them a reason to do math in their head. Show them the consequences of life choices (loans). Give them an idea where your hard-earned money goes every month.
17) Educational shows
If I had a dollar for every fact my son tells me about animals after watching Wild Kratts, I’d be very rich. Media is a tool. We need to learn how to use it without freaking out about it (I’m still getting there). Wild Kratts, the Magic School Bus, Odd Squad, and Planet Earth are some of our favorite ways to learn math and science.
18) Do errands
This one again requires a bit of intentionality. Errands can look like kid bored and frustrated slumped in the back seat OR it can look like kid engaged in the process, asking questions, getting input, and loving learning how to do an “adult” thing. The grocery store, the bank, the thrift store – all excellent learning opportunities.
19) Writing cards & letters
I don’t know who doesn’t like to receive an actual note in the mail as opposed to junk mail and bills. Many people don’t have time to send hand-written letters. Homeschoolers do.
Kids love to learn in meaningful ways. They could learn writing by copying letters again and again on a handwriting worksheet, or by writing a card that will brighten someone’s day. Which would you choose?
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20) Pretend play
Kids learn so much through play. They learn how to interact with people, social norms and behaviors. They process information and emotions and experiences through pretend play as well. Play is vital to the social, emotional, and intellectual development of our children, and they get far too little of it. Let the children play!
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21) Trips to the zoo, museum, or aquarium
Our country is rich in experiential learning experiences. Just do it!
Did this list change your whole perspective on homeschooling preschool? I hope so! It’s not that hard, especially in the early years.
Your child learned to talk and walk just by being with you. You can absolutely teach them to read and write.
Homeschooling is a lifestyle, one where learning doesn’t fit into a neat 8 a.m. – 2 p.m. box. Comparing homeschooling to traditional school is like comparing apples to oranges.
When you consider homeschooling, you need to learn a whole new way of thinking about education. It takes a lot of time, but you can learn how to do it.